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Asexual dating app
By asexuals, for asexuals!
More than asexual dating: find your ace community
We’ve created a safe ace space where asexuals can connect, make friends, find their ace community and build meaningful relationships with others.
By asexuals, for asexuals.
On our A.C.E. app for dating & friendship, you can:
- Find other people on the asexual spectrum.
- Make new friends and build connections.
- Match other asexuals for (a)romantic relationships.
- Like, match and chat for free.
Asexual dating profile
Create your own unique asexual dating profile by adding a profile picture and some information about yourself. After that you’re ready to make new asexual friends and discover other asexuals, demisexuals and everyone in between.
You can tell a lot about yourself. From asexual and romantic orientation, to preferences (how okay are you with romance, physical contact, etc). You can also select lifestyle choices, write about yourself, share photos and much, much more.
Find other asexuals
A dating app for asexuals should understand what it’s like to be asexual so they can offer options other dating apps wouldn’t think of. Search for women, men, non-binary and agender, as well as asexuals, demisexuals and graysexuals.
We know finding, let alone dating asexuals, can be difficult. So we made it easier for you with our easy to use search options. Use filters for specific asexual orientations, age and location. This way you can find the best possible asexual match.
Asexual dating: search and match!
Asexuals don’t have it easy when it comes to finding and dating asexuals. But we are trying to change that with A.C.E.!
You’re in control. You like whoever you like and if they like you too, you get to chat. So no unwanted messages from just anyone (or bots!). Feel safe while matching. If you’re still worried, you can also use our incognito mode. Your profile will only be visible to those you have liked.
Dating asexuals for free, or for a fair price
These days, most mainstream dating apps like Tinder, OKCupid and Bumble ask for a lot of money to find your perfect match through premium services. This might be fair when 1 out of every 5 people is a possible match. But with only 1% of the population being asexual and even less in your age and location range, asking that much seems unreasonable. Dating asexuals shouldn’t be more expensive just because you’re not allosexual.
That’s why you can use our app for free: like, match and chat without paying anything. If you like the extra features or want to support us, consider the premium membership and/or leaving a review. This helps us grow and reach a larger audience. Which means more people to connect with for you!
For Premium, we’ve decided to only ask the price of a piece of cake each month. Not only because it’s fitting to the asexual cake symbol, but mostly because it’s more reasonable. A fancy cup of coffee would work too. 😉
Asexual and romantic orientations
We have many different asexual, demisexual and graysexual members. Among them there are different kind of (a)romantic asexuals. For example:
- Heteroromantic asexual
- Homoromantic asexual
- Biromantic asexual
- Panromantic asexual
- Polyromantic asexual
- Demiromantic asexual
- Gray-romantic asexual
- Aromantic asexual
You’ll be able to search for these different asexual and (a)romantic orientations in other people’s profiles as well as putting it in your own dating profile. Making it easier to find the perfect asexual match for you.
Asexual dating tips
Dating for asexuals on mainstream apps can be rough sometimes. You don’t want to always have to explain what asexuality is, to everyone asking. Only to be rejected by allosexuals afterwards. That’s why a dating app specifically for asexuals can be a pleasant change. Here are some tips to make the most out of it!
- Be sure to fill out your profile as much as possible. Selecting your asexual and romantic orientation and preferences can be a great start to show others what it is you’re looking for.
- Because research found around 1% of the population to be asexual, sometimes it can be a good idea to look a little further than your own city (or in some cases even country) when you’re trying to date asexuals.
- Read the tips offered in your profile, to keep you safe both online as well as offline!
Asexual dating: success stories
We are looking forward to hearing success stories from asexuals who fell in love and became a happy couple or best friends!
So if you found your asexual match on A.C.E. and you’d like to be one of the success stories, and inspire and motivate other asexuals, then contact us and we will share your asexual dating story with our community on our blog (anonymously if requested).
Asexual dating may not always be easy, but we should show each other that it’s possible and inspire others with success stories. Reach out to us!
Start dating asexuals (worldwide!)
Are you ready to find your match? Join our asexual dating app and find the relationship you deserve. Start searching with a feeling of safety and no fear of judgement. Here we’re all asexuals. Whether you’re looking for friendships, romantic relationships or something in between, this is the place for you! Download A.C.E. below to get started.
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What aces say about A.C.E.
“This is one of the best dating apps for Asexuals I've ever used.”
App Store review“I found this app really easy to use as someone who's fairly new to dating apps.”
App Store review“I think this app is good compared to other dating and friendship apps for aces.”
App Store review“…I've been able to count on the 'Nearby' feature to find/meet 3 Ace locals.”
App Store review“It's a pretty good app all things considered.”
Google Play review“I love the idea of this app being for aro ace people, to be able to connect with other people like yourself.”
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Everything you want to know about A.C.E., the free asexual dating app for friendship and love, made by asexuals, for asexuals.
Is A.C.E. really free?
Yes. You can create a profile, search with basic filters, view profiles, like, match and chat, all for free. Premium is optional and adds extras such as seeing who liked you, read receipts and advanced search filters. You never need Premium to find a date or a friend.
What do I get with Premium?
Premium gives you the option to see who liked you and track who you liked, read receipts and advanced search filters. It also includes incognito mode for extra safety. Everything you need to match and chat stays free.
Who is A.C.E. for?
A.C.E. is for everyone on the asexual spectrum: asexual, demisexual, graysexual, aroace and everyone in between. Whether you are romantic, aromantic or not sure yet, you are welcome. Members must be 18 or older.
Can I use A.C.E. to find friends instead of a partner?
Absolutely. Many members are looking for friendship, community or a queerplatonic relationship rather than romance. You choose what you are looking for on your profile, so others know what to expect.
Do I need to know my exact label to join?
No. Plenty of people are still figuring it out. Pick the label that fits best for now and change it whenever you like. Want to explore first? Take our asexuality test or read about the asexual spectrum. You'll find much more on our asexuality blog.
How do I show what I'm comfortable with?
Your profile lets you share your asexual and romantic orientation and your preferences around romance and physical contact. Matching members see this before you chat, so expectations are clear from the start.
Is A.C.E. a safe place to date?
A.C.E. is made by asexuals, for asexuals, and we work hard to keep it a safe ace space. All members are 18+ and explicit content is not allowed. You can only chat after you both like each other: that is a deliberate choice, so nobody receives spam or unwanted messages. We have more safety measures in place and share safety tips in the app, for talking and meeting with other asexuals both inside and outside the app.
Why can't I message someone before we match?
Because unwanted messages are one of the main reasons aces leave mainstream dating apps. On A.C.E., a chat only starts when you both like each other. That keeps your inbox free of spam, bots and messages you didn't ask for.
Where can I download A.C.E.?
A.C.E. is available as a free app for iPhone on the App Store and for Android on Google Play. Asexuals.net is where you'll find our guides, tests and information about asexuality; dating and chatting happen in the app.
Why are there so few asexual people near me?
Research suggests that around 1% of people are asexual, so local matches can be rare. Try widening your search radius, or look across your whole country or region. Many members connect long-distance first. Share the app with your ace friends too, to help the community grow.
Who is behind Asexuals.net and A.C.E.?
Asexuals.net and A.C.E. are built by asexual people, for asexual people. The idea for Asexuals.net started in 2019, because there were no good options for aces and we knew it could be done better. In 2025 we moved from our dating website to the A.C.E. dating app, and the community has kept growing ever since.
More questions about asexuality itself? Read our asexuality FAQ.